31岁，爱自己

06 Octorber 2012
第一次和他家人外出
昨天是他姐的毕业典礼

谢谢他,陪伴了我一整天!

三年前,
我面对了爱情与友情的考验
我选择了爱情,
到最后却伤痕累累..
那时候,
我天真的以为,
他是真心爱我的..
相信那些海誓山盟是永恒的..

三年后,
我恋爱了
我遇见一个可以让我开心的人
我记得,
我问堂姐..
为什么我没办法100分的爱他
堂姐说,
一个曾经被爱人伤害过的人,
都没办法再次全心全意的去爱一个人,
她被伤害的次数越多,
那层保护色越厚

三年后,
我再次面对同样的问题
Relationship & Friendship
Which want come first ?
以前是我问她,
现在是另个她问我。
问者,
必定是受害者..
我相信..
因为经历过..

只从上一次的经历后,
我告诉自己,
如果再次面对同样的问题,
我会毫不犹豫的选择友情。
可是这次..
我不想做决定..
两个都一样的重要
两艘船在大海中航行
如果这两艘船发生战争
最后只会两败俱伤
为何两艘船不能一起同行?
两艘船的势力不是一艘船来得强吗?

To My Beloved ..

Friendship - You are most important !
Loveship - He also important for me !

They are difference ship ,
They have their own value & memories ,
It cannt be replace by others ..

You know ,
I have face this kind of situation before ..
That time .. I choose Loveship ..
until at the end , I lost everything .
start from that moment ,
I never and ever believed that ..
Love is forever !
Same goes to friendship ..
If you realise , I not much talk about future ..
I dont like to give any promise ..
time will pass ,
Love will goes ,
People will change .

Sorry I have to say that ,
no matter how close you with someone,
when the time pass ,
the relationship between two will change ,
when they stay together ,
it become closer ,
When they are not together ,
it become stranger .

For now ,
In Friendship ,
You are much important for me !
It is hard to find someone who can sharing the problem to each other !

In Loveship ,
He is important for me .
It is hard to find someone who love you and can manage to you laugh !

If there have 2 ship at the ocean ,
You hope they fighting or they cooperate ?
If fighting , 2 ship will may get hurt & injure ..
If cooperation , it become a power .. nobody dare to attack them.

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